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11/25/2020

11/25/2020

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2:06pm-He said, "I know I would be fine without you."

2:18pm-Never say "my feelings" or "feelings" to him. He said I use that word to manipulate.

2:25pm-He asked me for $20 and then used it to buy alcohol.

2:29pm-He said, "All "borderlines" are narcissists."

5:06pm-He said, "You're a drama queen, and that's putting it lightly."

5:27pm-He said, "I don't think you'll ever change."

5:35pm-I asked him if I'm feeling negative, can he help me feel positive. He said, "No. It's a waste of my time and I don't feel like it."

5:41pm-He said, "I could have had a good day, but you made it shitty, and that is every day."

6:38pm-When I try to talk about my feelings or anything, he says, "Wah, wah, wah. What a baby complainer." I should do that to him from now on. He said that I complain all the time. He better never fucking complain EVER!!!!

6:49pm-He doesn't want to be with me. I'm just gonna kill myself. No warning to him or anybody else. Now he said he doesn't want me to move there. Fuck this. I'm done. I don't want to be with him anymore. I'm done. I don't care what happens anymore.

6:59pm-When I said that I've been hurt before, he said, "Wah, wah, wah. Suck it up and stop complaining."

7:00pm-He said that in the three days I was there, only 12 hours were good.

7:15pm-He said that all I do all day long every day, is ask him questions like are you hurting me, are you talking to other women, etc. And since I already KNOW he is doing those things and that he will hurt me and abandon me, I'm choosing to not care anymore, about him or us or anything.

7:21pm-He said HE knows more about Borderline than I do. HA.


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