1 Nobody cares about our feelings, thoughts, or worries (Link to BPD website) 2 Nobody wants to hear about our feelings, thoughts, or worries 3 People think our feelings, thoughts, and worries are irrational, regardless 4 We constantly get gaslighted whenever we have a negative feeling, thought, or worry. (Link to article on Gaslighting) 5 People just think we're "crazy", that we're not good, and that we're incapable of change. 6 People think we are manipulative, game-playing liars who will never change or get better. 7 Nobody understands BPD unless you have it. They are just incapable of understanding it without having lived with it.  8 We are not "allowed" to have any negative feelings, thoughts, or worries like "average" people are. 9 If we do get up the courage to express any negative emotion or thought, we are immediately dismissed and gaslighted. 10 When we are repeatedly dismissed and gaslighted, we tend to shut down and become fearful o...